We did a heavy textured tile (each tile also has a different imprint design) in the same size but I went with white grout not to bring out the irregular grout lines too much. I feel it gives texture but not over the top! the pic u posted looks badly laid and they are different size tiles. There is great textured tile at Amber tile or colour tile (I'm in Sydney) otherwise I think like your husband suggests and go with the standard subway (but change grout to black for that industrial feel) otherwise how do you feel about a beveled subway? That would of been my next choice!

Depending on your overall design, using different colours/grout and limiting them (just kitchen or 1 bathroom) they will be en-vogue for years to come. But like all popular designs/products they have their time too. We're using the pattern just not black/white in our kitchen. I'm sure I'll be sick of them at some point years from now and have to update the kitchen - nothing new there!

Hi Caroline, A few inspiration photos for you, try using subway tiles in a stacked style for a modern contemporary look, much more stylish than the overdone normal subway look, would look great in both areas, your tile store will advise the size of tile that will best suit your requirements.

Hand made subway tiles, with a gloss finish would also look wonderful. They have an undulating surface which bounces the light around, and will give texture and even more interest to you wonderful kitchen. I really like the colour of your cabinets.