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Comments (66)Wuff, that's how it should be...unfortuntely things are hardly ever as they should be and mny people these days haven't a clue about ettiquette....that applies to some adults in particular. I agree that fine dining restaurants are not suitable for children...unless of course, as you describe, the children hav been schooled in proper behaviour. One restaurants I've been taken to on specil occasions actually has a policy of "no children"..but in order not to breach discrimination ettiquette they have a special chidren's dining room with waiters dressed in colorful uniforms. There's also a fine dining children's menu. The children are called 'maam' and 'sir' and have their chairs pulled out for them....they have their non alcoholic drinks served in lovly glases as if it were champagne or wine....it really delightful. They also have themed evenings. There's a dining etiquette that the children are expected to observe..and how to hold and use the cutlery. Parents are given a little booklet about it.. I thought it a good way to instruct the adults under the guise of instructing the children. It works well and the restaurant owners are to be commended for such a novel approach to...well, it "manners" isn't it? And not many know the mening ot the word these days. The children come away from such an experience feeling important..and I think some parents learn a few things too. There's nothing worse that not being able to go out for a dignified meal because other people don't realise that some places are just not for children..especilly their chidren. Its one thing being well-to-do and completely another having manners. My dear old Mum was the eldest of 12 children...their Dad was an Engine Driver, but he insisted that each and every one of the children learn manners.. As disadvantaged as they were, they "dressed" for dinner in their best always clean, pressed, starched clothes,,, darns, mends and all, and he'd inspect them all before they were allowed to be seated. Mum's Aunt Laura taught her to..."be a lady" and educated her about the arts, taught her how to dance, how to set a table for a three course meal, how to dress, how to be polite, and..how to cook and manage a home...so she would be able to "mix it with the best" and not be thought out of place. How things have changed...its all more relaxed. Manners and respect for others seem to have..."Gone With The Wind"..regarded as outmoded and old fashioned. Pity! Wonder how we can get a gracious, respecful society back?...See MoreWhat makes a good neighbour?
Comments (8)Neighbours that let you be you. I like it if neighbours help each other out, but above that I'd place letting you live as you like. The suburbs drive me insane with the lawnmowing fanaticism and treehating. The suburban hegemony has destroyed every wildflower/natural style garden I've had. Letters from council that tell you to mow your modern ornamental grass garden or cop a fine are disappointing. And neighbours that poison your screening hedge through the fence break my heart. I'm quite comfortable with there being a style or a look maintained in the front yard, but backyards should be how you want them. I'd love to be able to relax outside my house without neighbours gawking. It creeps me out. I would love it if neighbours were sensitive to the fact that what they do impacts others re: spraying pesticides, not cleaning their chimneys, burning off rubbish when you have washing out etc... There seem to be some things that are sacrosanct in Australian neigbourhoods... eg. ultrashort lawns and pitiful treescapes, while casual alcoholism and environmental degradation are totally fair game....See MoreOur neighbour across the road....
Comments (4)I didn't know you could paint bricks. Looks great I'll look into that...See MoreBackyard/deck neighbour privacy screening
Comments (5)You have lots of posts Belinda! Thinking about this one and the one about lillypilly along the fence line, perhaps you could move the figs from deck and plant along fence. Unless you are on top of pruning and shaping the figs, they may quickly outgrow the pots. We had 5 similar size figs in pots, which we used to topiary but it wasn't long before they had split the pots and grown to about 4-5m high! They provided excellent privacy as were quite thick. We did have to cut them down eventually as they were too high to maintain and they were too close to our pool. I'm not a huge fan of Lillypillies - mock orange / muraya are a quick growing one you might like. Either way, if on your deck, you'll need to make sure the planters/pots are large enough to allow the trees to grow enough so that they provide privacy....See MoreGet Andy Building P/L
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