Would you consider adding some colour? The room feels a little cold as is. Or if you want to stay neutral perhaps adding some wood and natural elements to warm up the space a little. a warm wood side table to contrast the high polished lamp could give a nice contrast

What colour is the shade? If white, then perhaps white side tables but change the handles/knobs to rose gold (if can find). It maybe a bit of a challenge but can you get a sample fabric and take it and the lamp to a furniture store?

Hi there, I agree with a lot of the suggestions above. Consider the textures, colours and finishes of your furnishings and artwork and think of the pendants as an opportunity to reiterate some of these. So for instance, if you have some black metal in the coffee table legs, you may bring in some of that in the kitchen pendants and look for say glass pendants with black fixtures. Coloured pendants are fun but they can date a lot quicker - bring in colour in the room through artwork, cushions and accessories.

For a dining room the general rule is to hang the lowest point of the pendant light between 30" and 34" (76 – 86 cm) from the top of the table. If you were to have a standard bedside lamp you would want the bottom of the lamp to be at chin height when in bed as that will give you the ideal task lighting and avoid glare. Play around with both of these methods and you should find an ideal height somewhere in-between that suits you.