Do all 10 chairs need to be at table all the time or can it be 8 chairs and 2 you bring over from somewhere else for large sit downs? DIAL UP YOUR CHAIR sizes to be proportional to table so, as to not look like child size chairs. Restoration Hardware furniture is over sized and generous proportions compared to many other retail sellers. Just any chair could be easily dwarfed by the RH table and look tiny. Here are a couple of my favorite modern chair makers KNOLL Brno flat bar chair which can be bought at auction and recovered in leather or vinyl of your choice and David Edward Furniture made for corporate, resort and colleges and available through dealers, I am showing here as a "host chair". Other "host" chair items possible of course. I just like this one.

OK... final grasp at a straw - your set of chairs for when they are not visiting, and when extended family come over, bring out fold out chairs with washable slipcovers? I know how difficult it is when you want to have a room that you like but you are having to adapt it for just for the one-off occasions and not as you would like it ideally. Perhaps that might work so you get what you want (most of the time!)

Ryan I would avoid the concrete block bedsides, they are a very literal interpretation of industrial and I don't think they will go very well with that bed. I would suggest you go for a really dark charcoal grey feature wall, and I would consider metal framed window style mirror such as the one attached - ideally around the same width as your mattress ends up being or as close to that width as possible. I would use white brick or whitewash distressed plaster style wallpaper on the rest of the room. And if you felt up to it I would consider whitewashing your floorboards. Lighting - I would have 1 pendant on either side of the bed hanging down from the ceiling, so they are directly above the bedsides. You could either suspend from ceiling or fit them on little hooks or similar on the walls like the attached images. For bedside I would go for something a bit more like the attached image - black metal frame and warm wood. However its hard to advise as looking at the image of the bed, the bedhead is much wider than the bed and you don't really want bedsides that are wider than that bedhead or its going to look a bit odd. It will be a tight squeeze so something super slim that is same width as the bedhead (from bed to edge) or alternatively consider a floating shelf type bedside that sits above the bedhead. (depends on how much storage you need here or if its just to sit books on). And colour wise, definitely stick black, white, greys and maybe small hint of something like mustard/ochre or rust. Use bedding and throw pillows to add texture and layers. Enjoy!

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