HELP. What would you do in this Living Space?
Rob Henning
3 years ago
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What would you use this amazing space for?
Comments (23)Art studio/ music room/library....anything creative...sewing, reading...writing...It is a beautiful serene space where one could spend many a quiet and memorable time. I can just see my cat making a beeline for what he would perceive is open space only to find himself concertinered up against the glass! If I owned this room I would have to have a frosted border about 30cm high all along the bottom of the glass, Whover owns this place is pretty fortunate and I hope they count their blessings....See MoreWould you consider having your (elderly) parents live with you?
Comments (22)On the surface this subject raises quaint images of flowering vine-adorned little granny flats and harmonious extended families 'taking tea' together on the patio surrounded by grandchildren and laughter, visiting care-givers helping the elderly live at home with family, receiving visits from Caregiver services...everyone smiling...but wait, there's more. At a certain stage along the planning process a percentage of us fall foul of the expectations, hopes and idealistic scenarios and maybe, for some, that is because of religious upbringings..."honour they father and thy mother" etc. adding guilt to the already difficult decisions. Housing our elderlies is not an easy topic to bring up for discussion in public because there is no "one way" to address and resolve this issue. I felt that HOUZZ, was a good place to have a discussion about an otherwise difficult and emotional subject that many would be reluctant to approach. On deciding to tell a bit of my own experience I felt that it would open up an opportunity for others battling with the complexities of this problem. So, congrats to all the Houzzers who've had a go at telling their stories here and making the rest of us feel that we are not alone having to deal with this life-situation. Taking care of our elderlies is about much more than building them a comfy granny flat or putting on extentions to our own homes and its not about applying a "One size fits most" solution...( Would that it were all that easy!) I found that my religious upbringing, coupled with unhappy experiences had with my parent made my final decision ever so much more difficult despite that certain 'rules' no longer applied in my own life....or I thought they did not! I discovered that the religious expectations put on me in my childhood coupled with those of friends and family members had reared their heads from the distant past to make my decisions more difficult. I discovered the power of guilt! Mum did not practise her faith but the rules about children and parents were convenient, those indisputable, fearsome rules to enforce compliance and obedience...or else.... I will never forget the day she quoted her favourite "honour thy father and thy mother" at me just once too often after she'd exacted very severe discipline: : I'd found my indignation at being treated unfairly and, through my bloodied handkerchief I screamed : -"What if thy father and thy mother are not honourable ?" There was no answer to that question, no hour long lecture to reinforce the point. Again I paid dearly for my retort. This example to illustrate that domineering parents can be very cruel when they call to bear witness to their demnds any rationale that they have inculcated in their children from a religious perspective and a socio/ cultural perspective So - pondering on wheher we would house our elderlies ( probably meant to call for accomodation suggestions and financial solutions here on HOUZZ) for me, and maybe for others. brought out a dilemma I did not know was there...Obligation irrespectively and Guilt.....they are your parents no matter what. Maybe today I would have guarded more jealously the life I'd won for myself....See MoreWhat should we do with an awkward blank space in the living room?
Comments (2)Find a gorgeous chair, rug, lamp, cushions and throw and some beautiful décor pieces, could be a bit of luxury to relax in and look wonderful also....See MoreWhat would you do with this space and colour
Comments (17)Hi Trish, White all the way from my perspective but it also depends on what furniture you have and art work too. I would not do wallpaper in such a big space. For a start, your wastage on rolls will be horrific if matching patterns. Maybe a feature wall in one colour, probably the one with the sloping top to the ceiling. Even with doors in it, you could paint the doors and trims etc the same colour. For a feature wall to be effective it needs to be a fairly simple shape so choose wisely. Colour choise will come down to furnishings and personal choice. Also, are you in a warm climate or a cool one? Do you want to warm up or cool down the room? Alternatively you could paint the ceiling a colour. Similar criteria as for the walls. If you paint it darker than the walls it will pull it down in height. It's a big space so big lights will be awesome. Love some of Julie's suggestions. The attached 'Chip' light from Italy is something I have been trying to find a project for. I just love it. Comes in several sizes and colours but not cheap!!!!. Think about cleaning if they are hung high above the floor, especially for glass or white fittings as they show the dust. I'd do something that runs along the space and maybe creates nice patterns on the ceiling and upper walls to give the space some interest. Definately get rid of the small bars on the windows but do I see some on internal doors too? Will you change those as well? Good luck. C....See MoreRob Henning
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