i have to say that you need to have lights that please you first before your daugher....i like the boxed lights but not fond of the deer or floral displays but it's your home

Rattan pendants look nice, however I would not like the job of cleaning. I could imagine them attracting grease, then spider webs and dust getting stuck to it. Thats just me - I put ease of cleaning quite high on my list when making choices.

Hi I firstly note I grew up with Hereford cattle on our farm.
Now hat is we is a family room floor and rug at odds with the rest of the spaces. That floor seems homely and at contrast even to the more modern black feature wall anchoring it. That wall matches better to style of the kitchen and dining and the pedestal in the family.
The boxed lamps match your kitchen style.
Hope that helps. It is just my unlearned opinion. Most important is that you have what please you.
I even like the deer print and feel it works with the more modern style.

I think the light fitting that you have chosen would look beautiful, I think you need to bring your lounge/dining more in line with your kitchen, add something beautiful to your table , maybe a beautiful bowl or even a branch from the garden in a beautiful vase could look fabulous, a lighter textured rug along with textured throws would look more modern

I would definitely remove the animal on the floor and cushions. And the Italian pedestal and floral display.
Try the deer print on the black wall in the lounge area. Try it on the right hand side of wall at eye level, after you take the pedestal away.
Put your tall table decoration onto the white buffet, where the deer was.
Can you remove the shiny light fittings that are in the dining room space. They seem not to work. Install led down lights. As the existing lights seem not to be where you have your table. This is my opinion. Everyone's tastes are different.

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I tend to agree with your daughter.
Your style seems confused between contemporary shiny, and hunting lodge?. And I just noticed the other animal skin on the lounge.......

I agree the hunting lodge animal theme kinda clashes with the modern style, but sometimes a room needs to be blend of the tastes of the people living there. I don't think the lights are an issue, they would look fine. Instead I think what is lacking is something to pull it all together. I think some pattern, texture and colour would help unify the various elements in the space. Perhaps a patterns throw rug instead of the skin? I like the textured rugs etc suggested but I would introduce some blue things around the place, they balance the brown a bit.

btw the quirky pillow and deer painting are what brings the animal skins and unifies it somewhat, it's not my taste but I think it shows some personality and makes it more interesting

Just to bring your other room in line with your beautiful kitchen, that dark wall gives you an ideal backdrop to add beautiful artwork, your couch to add some moody cushions for a stylish modern look, a coffee table, rug , maybe a beautiful chair would look fabulous and tie it all together. Let your beautiful kitchen set the theme for your styling.