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Kerrie Langloy7

Churchconverter, yep i relate to that!

   
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Kerrie Langloy7

Gabrielle Art Jones, well said!

   
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ladyrob1

@ Kerrie Langloy...thanks for your kind comments...and yes, its not the 'stuff" that makes a home especially if its only showy and otherwise uncomfortable. Of course if its going to be your forever home most certainly that is not the guide...if for resale then you'll have to cope with "what the buyers want" for a while...and hope it sells. I am sorry I ever fell for that nonsense! The buyers can dhange it if they want! I've spent the last several years recapturing the initial homey simplicity I'd created and trying to restore the dynamic I had going ,,,that's been hard and I am really upset that I let my otherwise single mindedness be swayed. Minus a couple of solid internal doors and a wall replaced with shutters the house does not function as well as it did. Over the years I've lived here my animal family has changed. I began as a breeder of a select line of Siamese Cats until my prize mother cat got killed on the road...so we lived out the rest of the pussycat lives gradually making little monuments in the garden and watering them with many tears...until I decided to take in rescues in my nice facilities. Now a couple of flyffy gingers live here with me and a big Neapolitan Mastiff protector dog. About 'stuff'...I had a hip replacement and was reluctant to replace an old comfy recliner that was my pet chair...so I had the rocker box base elevated....left the rest with just a throw and cushions. My Siamese were respectful of my upholstery...but not these little street kittens...so now I have a favourite chair that I call "my embarassment piece" sitting in pride of place in my art studio.....but its not my embarassment......and my cats enjoy the joke....

" Oh don't be such a stick in the mud...this is a perfectly lovely chair"
Rather the discomfort belongs to those who don't tolerate 'scruffy'..With my cats, .I rather enjoy watching them trying to restrain themselves from asking why I do not have it recovered...or replaced. Why? Its "homey" and suits my frame and the flying paint in my art studio...along with the occasional little multicoloured paw prints....Its a case of having the right 'stuff' in your home and it being yours how you like it. One day I might be framing the little coloured paw prints...then maybe I'll find another chair that fits me. My home...my furniture...my old brass taps and sentimental make-dos! And yes...every sensitive person who visits remarks how peaceful the atmosphere is. I've bought and sold three houses and all I have ever done is declutter, shampoo, steam clean and sell "atmosphere".

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