Personally I think your dining is crying out for a bigger statement, something more luxe or at least larger, either single or many pendants hung together even. At different heights. And I disagree - you can make a different statement with the dining area that does not follow the lounge theme. Whilst they flow they are still separate areas. Just my opinion!

I was keen on that same light fitting. Was told that it cannot be flush to ceiling or it would be a fire hazard. It is beautiful - perhaps in a little while you won't even notice the bit attached to the ceiling? Otherwise, as Julie suggested, you may prefer to exchange for something else.

I would definitely remove the animal on the floor and cushions. And the Italian pedestal and floral display. Try the deer print on the black wall in the lounge area. Try it on the right hand side of wall at eye level, after you take the pedestal away. Put your tall table decoration onto the white buffet, where the deer was. Can you remove the shiny light fittings that are in the dining room space. They seem not to work. Install led down lights. As the existing lights seem not to be where you have your table. This is my opinion. Everyone's tastes are different.

I’m with you. I love stained glass but it’s not for my home. I always have to remind myself that it’s ok to love something but not have it in my home. Maybe just have one light fitting in your main bedroom because that’s where you can be a bit more dramatic.