How to Love Your Home Just the Way It Is
To-do list whipping you into frenzy? Start by learning to feel genuine gratitude for all the comforts of your home...
Whether you’ve been letting your home improvement to-do list get the best of you, or are finding yourself comparing your real-world home to professionally styled and photographed ones, it’s natural to get a little down on your home from time to time. Luckily, feeling content at home is something available to everyone, no matter the size or condition of your space. By working your way through these nine suggestions, you can gain a deeper appreciation of your house, just as it is today.
2. Use your senses
If you’re getting down on your house, it can be hard to find anything to appreciate – but using your senses, you can zero in on the pleasures of home. Take a quick sensory tour of your home and note anything positive: the cosy comfort of your couch, the smell of coffee brewing, the feel of a fluffy rug between your toes.
More: How to Create a Home That Satisfies the Senses
If you’re getting down on your house, it can be hard to find anything to appreciate – but using your senses, you can zero in on the pleasures of home. Take a quick sensory tour of your home and note anything positive: the cosy comfort of your couch, the smell of coffee brewing, the feel of a fluffy rug between your toes.
More: How to Create a Home That Satisfies the Senses
3. Contrast it with not-home
Imagine you’ve just been on a long trip, and you are arriving home for the first time in weeks. You close the door behind you and take a deep breath. What are you most looking forward to about being home in that moment? Think about the ways your home comforts and supports you.
Imagine you’ve just been on a long trip, and you are arriving home for the first time in weeks. You close the door behind you and take a deep breath. What are you most looking forward to about being home in that moment? Think about the ways your home comforts and supports you.
4. Think beyond the visible
Is your rent or mortgage affordable, allowing you to live within your means? Is your home near your best friend’s house, a lovely park or your favourite café? Is it quiet? Are your neighbours nice? There are many factors that you may not see when you look around but that are just as (or more) important than the space itself.
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Is your rent or mortgage affordable, allowing you to live within your means? Is your home near your best friend’s house, a lovely park or your favourite café? Is it quiet? Are your neighbours nice? There are many factors that you may not see when you look around but that are just as (or more) important than the space itself.
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5. Consider what visitors like about your home
When friends come over, do they comment on how welcoming and relaxing your house is? Is it great for parties, intimate chats, or barbecues on the lawn? Pay attention to what others have to say about your space.
When friends come over, do they comment on how welcoming and relaxing your house is? Is it great for parties, intimate chats, or barbecues on the lawn? Pay attention to what others have to say about your space.
6. Look at the living things
Be sure to count the people and furry friends you share your home with among your blessings. Does the light in your home make it easy to grow that windowsill herb garden? Does owning your own home or having an accommodating landlord make it possible to share your space with furry friends? Do your kids love jumping on that squashy old couch?
Be sure to count the people and furry friends you share your home with among your blessings. Does the light in your home make it easy to grow that windowsill herb garden? Does owning your own home or having an accommodating landlord make it possible to share your space with furry friends? Do your kids love jumping on that squashy old couch?
7. Look out your windows
Do you have a view of your private garden, a bustling city street, a beautiful tree? Do you have a favourite spot where you like to sit and daydream, simply gazing at the clouds outside?
Do you have a view of your private garden, a bustling city street, a beautiful tree? Do you have a favourite spot where you like to sit and daydream, simply gazing at the clouds outside?
8. Look on the bright side
Sometimes all it takes is a fresh perspective to turn what could be a negative into something good. A small space may feel cramped, but it also uses fewer resources, so it’s naturally greening your lifestyle.
Sharing a home with extended family may be trying at times, but it’s undoubtedly providing memories you will cherish for many years. If something has been irking you, try to think of an upside.
Sometimes all it takes is a fresh perspective to turn what could be a negative into something good. A small space may feel cramped, but it also uses fewer resources, so it’s naturally greening your lifestyle.
Sharing a home with extended family may be trying at times, but it’s undoubtedly providing memories you will cherish for many years. If something has been irking you, try to think of an upside.
9. Consider what your home allows you to do
Whether you love to cook, entertain, read, watch movies or play with your kids, focusing on the activities you enjoy at home can help take the focus away from that never-ending list of improvements. In fact, using your home more is one wonderfully simple way to appreciate what it has to offer.
Whether you love to cook, entertain, read, watch movies or play with your kids, focusing on the activities you enjoy at home can help take the focus away from that never-ending list of improvements. In fact, using your home more is one wonderfully simple way to appreciate what it has to offer.
Keep it up…
If the suggestions in this story have inspired you to look at your home in a new way, consider collecting your thoughts in a gratitude journal. I also encourage you to pay attention to precisely what makes you feel grateful at home – and do more of it! It’s only natural as you are digging in the garden, kneading bread dough or reading a story to a child that you will begin to feel more content with things as they are.
TELL US
What do you appreciate about your home? Share the love in the Comments.
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If the suggestions in this story have inspired you to look at your home in a new way, consider collecting your thoughts in a gratitude journal. I also encourage you to pay attention to precisely what makes you feel grateful at home – and do more of it! It’s only natural as you are digging in the garden, kneading bread dough or reading a story to a child that you will begin to feel more content with things as they are.
TELL US
What do you appreciate about your home? Share the love in the Comments.
MORE TIPS
10 Ways to Give Thanks to Your Home
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No matter where you live, there was likely something that attracted you to your house when you first saw it. Was it the sunny backyard, charming verandah, original wood floors? Once you are living in a place, it’s natural to focus more on home improvements, but taking a moment to recall your favourite things about your home can put things in perspective.