The problem is there are some FHA required repairs to be done on the trim and fascia before the loan closes that I'm having to pay for and if I'm going to pay someone to paint I would rather it be the colors I want ( which I don't know what I want) so I don't have to re do it.

Lightening and creating some contrast could really update the home! What if you painted the brick white, added teak wood exterior shutters and wood door to match, and black windows/trim...

The "repairs" required probably won't involve replacing ALL the trim and fascia. I would take a piece of the removed board to the local big box store and get matching paint. Don't rush a decision on color. You are trying to "do too much, too soon". Congrats on your new home.