good night..I'd better sleep or else can't get up tomorrow ..Tuesdays are a killer lol plus driving back to Melb after work ..hubby is due back he just texted to say his plane is two hours delayed

Oh Boy! This is where I come into my own. A few years ago my daughter was working in England and I was driving her small red hot pulsar to the shopping centre to buy coffee (six cans of 500gms). I saw toilet paper was on special so I bought 480 rolls. The only problem was there was not enough rom for the toilet paper and the two dogs, so I left the dogs at the shops and took the paper home and then went back for the dogs. When we had used all that toilet paper I kept my eyes open for when they were on special again and bought 600 rolls - no problem this time because I did not take the dogs. Next time it was 720 rolls and two trips to the shop to pick them up. It should have been 840 rolls the last time but a sudden burst of common-sense saw me buy only 480 and I am regretting it already because more than half of them have gone. So 960 here I come.

I love Marie's respect for the things we have, and her practice of thanking the things that don't actually bring us joy for what they have taught us (eg I don't suit that colour or if I don't like the feel of something, I don't end up wearing it). Her system does not generate a lot of rubbish; there are always people that will love the things that don't suit us and will be grateful to be able to buy them at a good price at a charity shop. I have found her philosophy hugely helpful especially for sentimental items which I don't love but felt I should hang on to. She has changed my life!

Can you swap the desk and filing cabinet spots or put the desk where that white shelf is, near the door. Also it isn’t advisable to have ones back to the door which would be the case if desk was facing the wall (feng shui). Painting above fireplace great but maybe hang it higher up and centred in the space. Paint colour on the walls, perhaps a light green or green-blue. A tone that picks up something in the tapestry and birds. That’ll make everything pop and look really nice and warm.